We’ve recently updated our name – from Family Mediation Training Canada to INSIGHTful Mediation Training – and could not be more excited about this. For those who have trained with me before you are aware of the importance I placed on dealing with the families in front of us fully, meaning that our techniques can actually help them process through difficult emotions and find the space and place in our work to map out a new way of dealing with each other, and the future. Where there are children involved, there couldn’t be more important work. Part of my growth over the past few years has been due to the excellent mentorship of Dr. Cheryl Picard and Elizabeth Sterritt. As I have embraced the insight mediation approach it only made sense to ensure that all of our courses allow other future mediators to learn the techniques as well. I am also excited to announce our new format for working professionals who want to become family mediators. In late September, early October 2022 we are going to offer our entire course package in a personal weekly zoom format, with three Saturday’s as well, taking the trainee through the entire courses in an exciting new way. Instead of taking each course “one by one”, we will structure the modules to flow in a way that will make sense for the learner. For example, you will hear about child support law one week with Cynthia Nantais followed the next by learning how to mediate child support cases with Jennifer Suzor. We have structured the modules to flow in a way that makes so much sense to us and we are excited to publish more details later this month. Hope everyone is enjoying a wonderful summer and ready to take some exciting courses this Fall!
Reflections After a Long Week Immersing in Domestic Violence
New IPV Risk Assessment Tool
I recently reviewed and attended an OAFM sponsored training event with Deepa Mattoo, Executive Director and Patricia Coelho, Project Coordinator, of the Barbra Schlifer Commemorative Clinic. They, together with other community partners, have developed a new Risk Assessment Tool which I think will be extremely helpful for mediators to use as a Screening tool. I have added this to the Resources of those who have taken my Domestic Violence and Intimate Partner Violence Screening course and highly recommend you review it and consider having a copy in every file. While we know the development of rapport in terms of asking questions of our prospective clients is a critical skill, we also know that we cannot rely on clients to volunteer highly sensitive information unless we ask some critical questions. Setting the stage by developing rapport, having sufficient time to conduct initial screening interviews and then applying a Risk Assessment Tool such as this is something that quite literally can save a life. Moving forward I will be highlighting the use of this new tool in my training programs.
Simulated Role Play Course
COVID and Online Training
I had a lot of reservations about online training. COVID forced me to adapt and serve, as OAFM has called us to do and I’m very happy to report things have gone really well. I have learned that there are many ways to connect with people, good things we can learn and do, and I have (somewhat) become a “Zoom Master”! I have now spent an entire summer training some people I have never met “live”. As strange as that is, not only have I felt rapport with those people but I’m happy to report they have developed rapport and friendships with each other. Training is my great passion and if I felt people were not connecting with each other I would not want to continue in this format. Very relieved that is not the case! I thought I would share a few comments from some of those mediators-to-be so that you can be encouraged with what will happen during training.
“I just wanted to send you a great big thank you for making the time and facilitating all the courses these past few months. I honestly feel like I could listen to you mediate for hours. You are a true professional with great experiences and a natural talent for teaching. Your passion and drive makes me want to do great things with this career and help others through the process. I feel very grateful I had this time with you and the others and hope I can be half the mediator you are over the up coming years“, CK
“The Advanced course was excellent. Great skill building, discussion of ethical issues, role plays.”, SB
So, if like me, you feel strange about the “online world”, dive in with us and give it a try!